Life is a Balancing

Life is a balancing between TO GIVE & TO TAKE, between to take care ourselves & to take care others. Next time, when u see someone is sad or desparate, better u muse what u can do for him/her than u've just passed him/her or u feel guilty coz can't help him/her. Maybe u can offer something as simple as a motivation word, or a smile that can make that person thinking with a new way about his/herself. Maybe u can help that person feel respected & loved. Start helping people close to u or around u. By helping others, indirectly helping urself..

Have a balancing life.

2 Things that Often Forgotten

There'r 2 things that often forgotten by people, which are '"Understanding & Empathy". Succsess without understanding & empathy is the same as rich people who never help anyone~who never give & share... But, understanding & empathy cannot be there if we haven't had a positive way of thinking. Why do we have to have understanding & empathy within us? Because those 2 things will keep us still have our pure inner feeling (nurani). Because i've seen lots of people around me who lost their pure inner feeling, lost the principle they hold during these time, lost what we've called 'sincere friendship' when money & ego has come within.....

Money's Value

Some people have no choice for their life's role. They hv to do something coz they hv no choice. We are so lucky coz we hv choices, that's why CHOOSE the RIGHT CHOICE. The money we've earned is not only for buying stuffs nor for self wealthiness, coz lots of rich people do not happy & never satisfaction. They feel like these coz they do not really understand the truth value of money & how to use the money appropriate with its value. They only know that money is for buying stuffs for themselves, for their ego... For me, money has its value & meaningfull when we spend it appropriate with the value behind it, which is to HELP, to PROTECT, & to make HAPPY people around us--people we love & care.. How about u? How do u spend ur money? Have u ever thought like me ? Is there any 'sharing' ingredient in ur heart & blood? For me, the truth happiness is when we CAN & WANT to SHARE (everything) with someone else, especially someone we love & care to make them happy..

Authorized by law

Things did not happen coincidenly. That's not how this world works. Success or failure isnot coincidence. We live in the world that is dominated & authorized by law, not by chance. Everything has happened coz of some reasons. The fact that, this world is full of unhappy person with what they had & earned, and yet they still keep doing the same things, thinking the same thoughts, talking the same things, & taking the same actions everyday. Stop it! Change it!

Memoriam for My Beloved MOM

From my mom, i've learnt to fill days with good memories.. Once we've gone, we will leave good memories to the people we know.. A phrase 'A little moment that's made our life big' is true, like what my mom has done during her life.. Filling our daily day with a litlle good things, with a little spare time for others, with a little helpfull hand, with a little listening, a little compliment, a little good advice, a little quite, and a sincere heart..... These 'little' things that will make our life 'BIG'.

Shd take Mom to S'pore ?

Since Mom's passed away (11March 2008) till now, i still feel very deep sad......
Every time some friends (mostly) asked me why i didnot take Mom to see doctor in Spore that time, i've answered it with cool but deep inside me --untill now-- i m wondering... Maybe they were right that i shd take Mom to Spore that time.... Maybe if i took Mom to see doctor in Spore, she still lived with us, we still could eat her cook, heard her voice........
Although few friends also told me that i have done my best & couldnot do anything that time, coz Mom's artery's block was her big arteries which was very risk for her ~ even to fly to Spore ~ coz anytime could be burst & danger her life.... maybe they only comforted me so i wouldn't feel regret... Although my fren also told me not to hear any comment nor suggestion from people who can only talk now when everything has passed, who didnot know exactly how it was going on that time, who didnot attend that time what it was going on, who can only gave comments though they arenot a doctor, yet deep inside me-- i regret for not taking Mom to Spore to see the best doctor there ... Maybe i shd take Mom fly to Spore that time....

Mom has gone forever..

11 March 2008 at 12.20 Mom has left me forever... I thought Mom would stay with me till very old enough... It's almost a month since Mom's gone, but still i often cry alone at nite.. Sometimes i hide myself & cry.. My heart so hurt .. Still across into my mind why mom has given up so easily, why she didnot fight it for us, why she didn't want to c my bros' marriage... I m trying to be tough in front of bros.. I m trying to look tough in front of others..
Just now, after i read my youngest bro's blogger, i m crying ... i cannot stand it.. I feel that i haven't done my best when Mom was sick to make Mom survived & lived longer.... My youngest bro is so lucky, at least he has ever hugged Mom twice & said that he loves Mom.. I have never had chance telling her that I love her so much...